Cleaning

My Fiance and i live at my dads at the moment, with out friend Claire and at the moment our mate is over here on holiday at the moment. Shes got pregnant by him and when he goes back he dont wanna know (Who need eastenders) but thats besides the point. Me, Caroline and Claire have been cleaning by a rota (Because Claire wasn't doing her bit) and it caused arguments and my dad telling me off every 5 minutes.

I put a rota up. For some reason my mate (Who is a guest in our house for the weeks he is here) Decided that he would do the washing up. First time i thanked him, as Claire Claimed that she had done it, but didn't. Second time he did it i said thank you again and then said to him not to do it again as he's a guest and it's our problem. Since then i took half the plates away (There were more than enough out so i hid the rest so theres only 4 of each thing out now).

I came back home today from shopping to find the Rota in the bin and him doing the washing up which this time i find quite offended by as he didnt listen to a word i've said. i come in, put the shopping down and tell him that i asked him not to do it because its not his problem. He started going on about how the kitchen was a state. I told him that i had hid half the kitchen things and only looks a state because everyone had used everything and also said that it was none of his business interfearing with the rota that he's thrown. The other day we had a discussion about this and he had a go at me that he did the washing up... I didnt ask him to!!! he just did it one day!

I have continusley been on about it alot lately as we had all agreed that the rota was fair and we would all do it. My dad shouldnt have to do it as he's being so kind of us all staying at his. But if somethings up he won't go to them, he'll go to me and bitch behind my back to others when things don't change. But now dave is sticking up for her saying that we leave it in a state, and its not even My Fiance and its not me who's left it in a state.

I've been rather annoyed with my friend not doing as i ask in this respect, as we had a party recently where my younger brother got way too pissed and had way too much than what he could handle by my friend who had passed him alcohol all night after instructions not to.

Next time that something is not done, I'm going to take things in more of an extreme way, but i think she's just doing it because he's here and when he goes i think she won't be the same.